Let's just say, today's been pretty crappy. Way to be optimistic, right? And, I bet you didn't expect to read a post about poop. Well, this is a post about poop. Ha!
There's nothing like having your toilet clogged. I'm sure under normal circumstances, it wouldn't be a problem, but in my case, it was a problem. You see, I don't know how to unclog a toilet! You read that right. No clue-whatsoever! Ask Ben, who I called a million and one times as he is up in a tree stand trying to shoot a big buck. And not only did I call him--I cried and cried and cried. Talk about an emotional morning--all over a dumb toilet!
Seriously-picture in your mind hugely pregnant woman plugging her nose with one hand, the other hand trying to work the plunger, and trying not to throw up, cause let's face it, where is there to throw up? The toilet is clogged!
I don't know if all the crying was over an overflowing toilet, or the fact that I rely on my husband, a lot. For little things. Things like taking out the trash. Hanging up pictures. Putting gas in the car. Unclogging toilets.
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There is a
blog my sister invited me to read. It's about a young mother whose husband was recently killed in a car crash due to a drunk driver, leaving her with 3 young kids to care for by herself. Once a stay at home mom, she will now need to find a job to support her family. Things that she didn't have to worry about before because her husband took care of them, now she is the one doing everything. As I read the words she writes, I can't help but think about being in that situation, and how hard it would be. And not just for the little things that I mentioned, but also the big things, like losing my spouse.
So, this morning, as I am feeling extremely inadequate because I can't unclog a stupid toilet, and my children have to pee {so I have them pee outside}, and then Parker says he has to {go #2}, I drive 3 kids in pj's over to Grandma Dot's house about a mile awayto use her toilet {thank you!}, I realize that I need to learn some essential skills! These things they don't teach you in Homemaking 101 {granted, they don't even
have Homemaking 101}. Maybe for our next Relief Society Activity, that's what I'll plan--Essential Skills 101....unclogging toilets, changing tires, and bread making.
Since I am the coordinator for all that!****************************************************
Anyway, my angel of a mother-in-law, showed up at my door, taking a break from her work, and unclogged my toilet for me, {and it only took her like 2 minutes, max!} threw the yucky towels in the washer, and even cleaned my bathroom for me. I seriously don't know how I can ever make it up to her. I am extremely grateful. I'm reminded that there are people willing to help out, no matter how "crappy" the situation may be.